Sound familiar? Thought so. Here are 37 things that can happen to me (and probably you too) on any given day — and keep me from doing the deed.
1. The kid wake up early. We could sneak in a quickie before the kids get up, but they get up so darned early that’s impossible!
2. I have to feed everyone. 2 breakfasts. 2 lunch boxes. 2 snacks. None of which are for me.
3. Everybody needs to get to school on time. 2 kids. 2 schools. One driver. Me.
4. There’s no food in the house! Guess I’ll stop at the shops, which is actually the butcher, green grocer and bakery by the time I pick up everything on everyone’s food wish list.
5. I’m filthy! I’ve got 10 minutes to shower and get dressed. I can do it!
6. The house is a mess! If I leave it, there’ll just be a bigger mess later.
7. I have three hours to do eight hours of work. Go! I want to get it all done so I don’t have to work tonight when the hubs is home.
8. School called, the big one’s not feeling well. There goes my three hours of work time. On my way.
9. We have to go see the pediatrician. Ear infection? Where did that come from?
10. We have to go to the pharmacy for antibiotics. The wait seems like it lasts forever!
11. It’s almost time to pick the little one up. How can it be time to pick her up? I feel like I just dropped her off.
12. We need birthday presents for the weekend. I’ll just order online and pay for the expedited shipping.
13. And wrapping paper… Ugh. I forgot to order the birthday gifts with wrapping. I guess I’ll be stopping at the newsagency to pick some up.
What? The big one is hungry again? I thought ear infections stole your appetite.
15. The hubs calls and asks for a favour. He wants to know if I have time to pick up his dry cleaning. And says he’ll be home early. That means he’s pre-scheduling sex. I’ll try.
16. Time to pick up the little on at preschool. Yay, we’re only 15 minutes late!
17. Everyone’s seat belted when the little one remembers she left her favourite cup at school. She insists we go back in to retrieve it. There goes another 15 minutes.
18. Now on the road, the little one spills the water from her favourite cup all over herself. I have to pull over. She then spills the rest on me. I’ve never felt less sexy. At least it wasn’t puke…
19. Nap time! Normally, I’d catch up on work or take a nap myself, but since the big one is home he wants some TLC.
20. The big one wants me to read to him. I tried to bribe him with some TV so I can get a little down time, but he’s not having it.
21. The little one doesn’t want to nap! She always naps. Not today. She says her ear hurts. Oh no.
22. We’re back at the paediatrician’s office. Turns out she’s got an ear infection, too.
23. We’re pulling into our driveway when the little one pukes in the car. Poor her. Poor me. This car looks and smells like a science experiment. Excursion to the car wash!
24. The big one gets nauseated and he pukes, too. Right after we get our car washed.
25. I might be next. Because there’s no question that I’ll get whatever the kids have…at some point.
26. Time to hose down the kids and the car. No time to go back to the car wash so I’ll scrub it myself and throw their clothes in the wash at the same time.
27. The hubs calls; he’s running late. He probably won’t make it by the kids’ bedtime. Shoot, I was hoping to squeeze in some work time while he put the kids to bed.
28. The kids are fighting. No time for me to clean me up after cleaning everyone else up. I’m busy playing referee.
29. Time to prepare dinner. What to make? Chicken, natch. I should have just ordered in.
30. Chore time. The kids eat dinner. I fold clothes and try to tidy up the mess of the day. Their dinner seems to create a bigger mess. It’s endless.
31. Bath time! Why do they always have to get me soaked?
32. Bed time x 2. Each kid wants separate bedtimes in their room. That’s at least 45 minutes. And I still have all my work from the morning that I never got done.
33. The kids are finally asleep…but there’s one thing I forgot. I have to bring a fruit salad to the little one’s school in the morning. If she goes.
34. I forgot to order books for the big one’s school book club. What did we ever do without the internet?
35. I have 82 emails I haven’t answered. I read them. I just never answered. Oops.
36. It’s my mum’s birthday! Phew, I can still call.
37. The hubs is home. He’s had a great day and wants to tell me about it. I feel guilty telling him I’ve got hours of work waiting for me, but I’ve got deadlines and am already days late on a few things.
It’s 11:30pm. I’m finally done with my day. Too bad the hubs passed out with the remote control in his hand hours ago. Ugh. I was hoping we’d get some time together.
I know I’ll try again tomorrow and have the best of intentions when I start my day. But no matter how organised I am as a mum, it doesn’t mean everyone else cooperates. Kids are unpredictable and my time isn’t always my own. In fact, it rarely is. So as much I’d love make out with the husband every night, there’s birthday presents to order and school lunches to make.
Now, if someone were to help me with my to-do list I’m sure it would be shorter and I’d have more time for a lot more things, like sex. Anyone? Husband? Anyone?
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