Note to my hubs: Doing any of these things will pretty much guarantee that you get lucky.
I've got a happy husband because I'm putting out more. I'm convinced this is the reason my marriage is going so great right now.
No one tells someone healing from a broken leg to hurry up and tap dance. So a woman recovering from childbirth shouldn't feel any pressure to have sex.
When my children were small, I felt disgusted that the parts of my body that gave them nourishment and comfort were being used sexually by my husband.