love and sex

Lessons From My Sexual Dry Spell

My husband and I have been together for 15 years. For the first half of our time together, we had a lot of sex — meaning, it was unusual for us to go more than 2 days in a row without at least a quickie. If he didn’t initiate, then I certainly would. “We just […]


How to Plan the Perfect Babymoon

If I could change one thing about my pregnancies, it would be this: I wish I’d taken a babymoon with my husband before it was too late. At the time, I thought babymoons were, at best, something only wealthy mums could afford—I mean, shouldn’t I be saving up for nappys? At worst, they seemed like […]

best loved

How to Find Time to Connect at Christmas

I have no idea where this year went to but here we are – it’s late November and Christmas preparations have officially begun. My list of to-dos is growing at an almighty rate and my diary is filling up with highlighted events not to be missed – school activities, drama rehearsals, dance concerts and neighborhood […]