When the alarm goes off at 6:30 am, I always feel like I’ve been run over by a truck. It doesn’t matter how many hours of sleep I got the night before. It doesn’t matter how hydrated I am, or what I did or did not drink before retiring for the night. Maybe it’s age — or maybe its motherhood — but it’s getting harder and harder for me to get myself going in the morning.
School days always start out with me lying in bed, giving myself a pep talk: I’m going to get up because coffee is brewing. I have to get up in order to drink it. I HAVE TO GET UP BECAUSE I HAVE TO GET COFFEE. I CAN DO THIS. I’M A STRONG, CAPABLE WOMAN WHO GAVE BIRTH THREE TIMES. I CAN DO ANYTHING I SET MY MIND TO.
During this self-motivation ritual, one of our boys inevitably bursts into our bedroom and jumps on his dad, which is precisely what I was hoping would happen, because seriously – how can he sleep through two alarms?! I want a prescription for whatever makes men sleep so soundly, stat. And, with that rough morning wake-up call, our school day routine is in motion…
6:40: Child runs into our bedroom and jumps onto our bed. I proceed to slide into the kitchen to get my first cup of coffee while my husband tries (and fails) to protect his testicles from getting stepped on.
6:42: Child shrieks as if he is already having the best day ever. Adults wonder if it’s too early for headache medicine.
6:45: I stumble from bedroom to bedroom, bumping into walls, spilling coffee, wiping it up with my socks, and shaking my Year 3 kid awake. He hides under the covers. I consider joining him.
6:48: My kindergartner begins hammering me with questions like, “If a shark and a dinosaur got into a fight, who would win?” Followed by, “Mummy? MUMMY. WHO WOULD WIN????!!!!!!!!”
6:50: Announce that I can’t answer questions until after breakfast and usher the kids to the kitchen.
7:00: Serve breakfast amid complaints. The oldest hates porridge. The middle doesn’t like his porridge this hot. My husband silently reaches for a Pop-Tart. I wonder aloud why I bother.
7:05: Husband disappears to have his morning toilet sess. I won’t see him again for approximately 30 minutes.
7:12: Text the following to my friend: How it is that my child can do long division but can’t seem to be able to brush his teeth?! IT ISN’T ROCKET SCIENCE.
7:15: Send another text to my friend: DOES YOUR HUSBAND SPEND 30 MINUTES IN THE TOILET? WHAT THE F**K DO THEY DO IN THERE?
7:16: Help one child button pants while simultaneously untangling another child from a shirt he put on backwards. Emit guttural sounds of frustration.
7:18: Yell at the kids to put their shoes on.
7:19: Ask my kids why their shoes aren’t on.
7:20: Scream into a pillow.
7:30: Refrain from giving male neighbour a full frontal hug of gratitude for taking my children to school. Choose to smile and wave instead.
7:35: Tell husband goodbye as he leaves for work. Reheat coffee. Sit down to check Facebook.
8:00: Snap out of a social media-induced fog and realise my youngest kid is in the house and she has to get ready for her school now.
8:01: Scream into a pillow.
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